Transform yourself, then the world will change.

Understand people, don't push them away.

No one is perfect in this world. Neither you, nor I, nor anyone in this vast world. We all make mistakes in some way or another, suffer from limitations, and try to learn from those mistakes.
But the sad thing is that we often move away from relationships and push people away because of other people's small mistakes or weaknesses. But we never think that behind every human behavior there is a story, an experience, a pain.
If we stop a little, listen a little, and understand a little, then we will see that the person we think is bad may be going through a difficult time in life. The person who is behaving rudely may be broken inside.
When you judge someone, you don't define who they are; you define who you are. That is, when you judge someone, you actually express your own mentality.
So learn to forgive, because forgiveness does not make people smaller, but bigger. Forgiveness does not mean approving mistakes, but rising above those mistakes and saving the relationship.
A study has shown that people who can forgive easily have about 30% less stress, and they live an average of 8 years longer. That is, forgiving not only frees others but also frees yourself.
So the question is, will you really be happy if you push everyone away and become alone? No, loneliness is never a source of happiness. Rather, it gradually takes away joy, love, and mental strength.
So make a decision today. Try to understand people from their position. Forgive small mistakes. Practice love and compassion in relationships. Because life is very short, but the possibility of love is very big. Instead of pushing everyone away, pull them to your side. Your life will become more peaceful, more joyful.
Decide now. Will you push people away because of their small mistakes, or will you pull them closer by forgiving them?
Transform yourself, then the world will change.