How to choose a woman for marriage?

Modern women sell their bodies in the market; they cannot survive without a man. A woman will turn herself into a public fantasy, and at the same time, she will maintain a private and faithful relationship - this can never happen. These two systems are self-contradictory. You cannot make a woman your life partner who treats her body like a marketplace and sells her attention like a subscription service. Then, when she finds the partner of her choice, she claims loyalty from him. Body count is not important to them. They say I will gift my body to unlimited men; this is my personal freedom. I will express myself. She creates situationships with 30-40 men in her life. Her inbox is like the door of a railway station, where there is an endless stream of men. Her entire branding stands on unlimited sexual access and exposure. Again, when a steady, disciplined, strong man comes in front of her, she suddenly wants to be seen as a “wife.” How can you expect exclusivity from someone who is completely dictatorial or monopolistic, giving the entire world free rein over your body like a porn star? Remember, respect is not a rebrand. Respect is a lifestyle.

It doesn’t end here. She will create a connection with you, use your resources, use your trustworthiness, use your free emotions, use your patriarchal leadership, and when she realizes that she has become established, she will say, I am not happy, I am not developing, I am not discovering myself. Translation? Again, she wants to go back to her previous lifestyle; she did not choose you as a person to love; she chose you as her temporary fatigue, you were her rest, not a companion.

Divorce is a weapon of survival for modern women. Divorce is a woman’s hidden victory. When they become completely authoritarian and chaotic or self-centered in the previous world, she uses divorce as an opportunity. After a divorce, a woman gets alimony, gets child support, gets online sympathy, creates a victim narrative, and starts rebranding her power. She collects footage, followers, sponsorship, sympathy, and virality by telling stories of grief, trauma, and breakups on social media. On the other hand, if a man says the same thing—“he did me wrong”— people think he is guilty. You learn, he gets compensation.

After a relationship breaks up, a man loses his stability, and a woman gets a free market. Men usually invest in stable families, but women get the opportunity to love countless men. She has billions of options in social media, dating apps, and the attention economy. When a man’s family breaks up, he falls into a void, while women can get relationships, validation, and financial benefits again. The system is structured this way—it's not a "woman's fault," but the real dynamic is there. Divorce is a Nobel Prize for women. After divorce, women see countless options for themselves, countless supports on social media, the law is on my side, and freedom gives me more possibilities. That's why it becomes easier for women to move on after separation or divorce. Men think, "If our relationship ends, we both lose." But women think— “This is my rebranding—my new life.” Betrayal, deception, and polygamy are not always pleasant. Women who have relationships with a large number of men have their brain’s reward circuit damaged. Oxytocin and dopamine in their brains decrease. They lose touch with society and the universe. If you have sex with 20-30 men repeatedly, the brain understands that your attraction is not constant. For him, reward is novelty, for him, sex is entertainment, for him, commitment is suffocation, and for him, loyalty is a costume. He loves you today. If he finds someone else like you tomorrow, you become irrelevant to him. You are no longer unique; you are just the “next experience.” A deep emotional connection is difficult for him. He cannot take romance seriously. He does not value intimacy. This is not “empowerment”—it is desensitization. He ultimately commits emotional suicide. The relationship feels deep to him. No. Stability is boring to him. He doesn't understand himself. "I will change for one" - that's rare for him.

The modern man is sponsoring his own self-destruction. Every penny you spend on the wrong woman reinforces the culture that is destroying you. Stop praising a woman who hides her character and only brings out her body. Why would you give your life for a woman who has burned her life and sells that destruction as "self-love"? Don't be the foundation of a woman who was never in the mindset of building anything with you. You are not her king; you are her compensation.

You don't need perfection, but you do need your ethics. Find a woman who still knows the value of respect, the importance of personal boundaries, restraint, humility, loyalty, and the power of privacy. A woman who hasn't sold her soul for likes and validation hasn't put her body on the marketplace. Don't chase after the man all the men in the world are desperate for; find someone who protects herself. She's not only protecting herself, but she's protecting your family's honor and your self-respect. And that's what makes a man truly irresistible.