We don't understand what we are attracting

You'll take home pineapple or Star fruit from the market today. Then eat half, keep the other half. If you notice, you will see a small insect coming and flying around the fruit.

But if you leave something sweet national in the same place, the view will change. Then not those insects, flies, or bees. Because attraction changes according to things. Whatever pulls, comes in the way.

If I tell you this time:

You are human, I am also human, everyone around is human. But still, not everyone has a similarity. Why? Because people are attracted by their personality, not only by their body or beauty, but also by their inner mental structure.

If you're a hypocrite, always take shelter in lies; good people won't be around you. Just can't stay. And if you are used to, and regularly in prayer, build a moral structure within yourself, you won't be friends with bad people, but it won't last. Similar Attracts Similar.

Listen to some girls say:

You know, how many boys are standing in line behind me! Actually, the foolish girl doesn't understand, the boys in this line don't stay to love her, they stay to suffer. If attraction is only physical, then there is no respect; there is only waiting for opportunity.

See some boys again:

They all want to swim in the river. One after another relationship, one after another fascination. Finally fell into the vast ocean from which it can't climb. Then he no longer has the courage, he cannot take responsibility, nor can he handle his own life.

There is a word in the Quran.

"The Holy ones are for the Holy ones." It's not just the context of marriage, it's the philosophy of human relations. You will be the way you are.

So the basics are very simple. Develop your own personality. Character, limitations, morality, self-respect. Tighten these four things. Then the real taste of life, the real happiness, will come back slowly. So you will be mentally well.

Otherwise, life will be spent with complaints, disappointments, and regret: got involved with the wrong person, nobody understood me, I'm cheated. If you can't build a personality, you will have time to say these things.

Problems are not always human.

Many times, the problem is that we don't understand what we are attracting.