How to make sex duration infinite (extended state of mind)?
Many people ask me this question. My simple solution for them is to learn about the “point of no return”. There comes a time during penetration when a man cannot control his ejaculation. After entering the point of no return, he has to quickly withdraw his penis. At this time, the girl’s job is to hold the boy’s penis tightly, twist it lightly, and pinch his backside. After entering this point, the man has to breathe heavily and spread the intensity of the feeling throughout his body. If the girl has no issues, she can suck and lightly bite the man’s penis at this time, then start penetration again. The girl is trying to cool down the man’s penis with affection and compassion, just like when a man becomes aggressive, his lover cries and cools him down. This process will be repeated again and again. It is difficult to return from the first point of no return. But after repeated practice, the ability to create multiple orgasms is created in a man, that is, even after the hype of his ejaculation comes, he will not ejaculate, but the neurochemistry of ejaculation will spread throughout his entire body. In this way, if a man acquires the ability to have multiple orgasms and he will become a superstar.
Once, scientist Ivan Pavlov experimented on a dog. We know that when a dog is given food, saliva is released from the dog's mouth. Ivan used to ring a bell every day before giving the dog food. And then he would give food. After repeating this incident for a week, a neural connection was created in the dog's brain, and that was, the bell means food. And from then on, whenever the bell is rung, its saliva is released. Similarly, when the penis understands that “no return means return”, then billions of new connections will be created in the hypothalamus, limbic system, and prefrontal cortex of the brain, and this will improve the ability to receive stress and pain. They will orgasm repeatedly but will not ejaculate.
There is a famous book in this regard, “The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know”!
The main theory of the book is that orgasm and ejaculation are two completely different neurophysiological phenomena. Orgasm means an explosion of neuroelectric energy, but ejaculation means a biological discharge. If a man learns to orgasm without ejaculation, then his sexual energy and mental energy are preserved. This book says that, like dogs, penises can be made multi-orgasmic through training.
When we first skate, we fall. Sometimes we skate in such a way that we don't even realize that we are skating. Because practice creates new neural connections in our brain and then experience becomes part of our unconscious machinery, experience becomes our hardware. Then we don't have to skate consciously anymore. Similarly, if you practice coming back from the point of no return like this for 3-4 months, then your sex duration will be unlimited. You will fall asleep exhausted, your lover will have an orgasm 3-4 times, but you will not have any ejaculation. You can use the power of neuroplasticity to make your penis a superstar. The performance of a man's penis is directly related to his social influence and prestige. If a man cannot give a woman an orgasm, he is mentally down. That is why every woman should help build a man's neuroplasticity.
Sex is a war, and your lover is your biggest competitor. If you can't prove your power to him, then you will see his true form. But if you take this war as a nuclear war, then there is a big problem, because the main weapon in this war is music. If you look at every song in a waveform, you will see that there is a "peak" (top point) and a "trough" (bottom point).
Similarly, sexual arousal or arousal curve is a waveform. It is not linear—it constantly rises and falls, such as: Baseline → Build-up → Peak → Release → Recovery. It is like the "Verse → Chorus → Drop → Bridge → Outro" structure of music. Most people do not see sex as music, but as rough and rough penetration.
Girls think that a boy will be infinitely powerful; he will have no weaknesses. But this idea is wrong. Just as a piece of music cannot be taken from verse to outro in a hurry, similarly, a man cannot suddenly do rough and rough penetration. Premature ejaculation is not a problem; it is a lack of skill and cooperation. A woman can make her man a superstar if she wants, and for this, she should consider the man she loves as a flesh-and-blood person instead of thinking of him as the Hulk and understand his difficulties and limitations. If there is a platonic and proper connection between two people, then it is not a matter of achieving unlimited time. Therefore, before having sex, build a human and friendly relationship with both of you. And this relationship will be guided by empathy, not ego.
Research-
1. Repetitive transcranial magnetic stimulation via the hippocampal brain-derived neurotrophic factor-tyrosine kinase receptor B pathway to affect sexual behavior and neuroplasticity in rapid ejaculation rats
Liu et al., Andrology, 2024 — The application of rTMS has been reported to activate the BDNF–TrkB pathway in the hippocampus to combat rapid ejaculation.
2. Altered brain activity associated with premature ejaculation improved by electroacupuncture in rats
PMCID: PMC11365699 — It has been shown how electroacupuncture alters the activity of specific brain regions and increases ejaculatory latency.
3. Aerobic exercise improves ejaculatory behaviors and complements dapoxetine treatment by upregulating the BDNF-5-HT duo: a pilot study in rats
This study, conducted in rats, has shown that the combined use of aerobic exercise and dapoxetine increases ejaculation latency and increases 5-HT, BDNF levels.
4. Central neurophysiology and dopaminergic control of ejaculation
A review that explains the central neurophysiological aspects of ejaculation and the role of dopamine signaling.
5. Central Neural Correlates During Inhibitory Control in Lifelong Premature Ejaculation Patients
An fMRI and functional connectivity analysis of whether there are differences in the inhibitory control network (the internal control system of the brain) in LPE (lifelong premature ejaculation) patients.
6. Premature Ejaculation: From Physiology to Treatment
A review article that discusses the physiology of PE (premature ejaculation), from its nature to available treatments and behavioral strategies.
7. Effects of a new functional-sexological treatment for premature ejaculation
A study that shows improvements in ejaculatory control using behavioral treatment (Senset Focus, Stop-and-Start, Squeeze Method) and new functional-sexological strategies.
8. The relationships among ejaculatory control, ejaculatory latency, and attempts to prolong heterosexual intercourse
A study conducted among university students analyzed the relationships between ejaculatory latency, efficient control, and attempts to prolong intercourse.
9. The postejaculatory refractory period: a neurophysiological study in the human male
From a public health and psychological perspective, the changes in physiological and neurological reactions (refractory period) and sensory thresholds after ejaculation have been examined.
10. Treatments for delayed ejaculation: a narrative review
A recent review of delayed ejaculation (DE) discusses the possible causes of DE, psychological and medical strategies, and recommended interventions for patients.
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